So 32 months after I have moved and gone through a legal custody battle with my ex husband the decision is that the stay with their father.
Regardless that he is brainwashing them and they cant make a statement or explain why they feel the way they do to save their life.
Their bedrooms that I have set up for the, over a year ago will now be rearranged. I pay for a 3000 sq ft home so they would have a nice place to live in but too little too late I guess.
As I start to rearrange the bedrooms, the memories of how excited I was to set them up start to fill my mind. It's ridiculous how a person can want to please their children so much to make sure they're comfortable and happy and they can be as selfish as they are.
I am putting both of their beds in one room and claiming a room as my office. I need to work in order to pay the 2k a month in child support so the office takes precedence. I will be comfortable and enjoy what I have built for myself and my family that is now no longer. It took a lot to obtain a house as an single parent and now all I can do is function as if I were childless, so that is what I shall do.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Monday, October 3, 2011
For beginners....
So today I have finally decided to start a blog, not to actually have anyone read, comment or by any means "listen" to but just to clear my head and collect my thoughts.
Introduction...
I am a divorced mother of two fabulously brainwashed sons. I relocated to find work and my ex-husband f- me in the drive thru. So now here I am posting my frustrations and disappointments online. Why? Well because you care right? duh. It's more so to get off of my chest without verbally disarming myself. As though the names may change the story is true.
I have been divorced for about 7 years now and 19 months ago I relocated to get a better job so support my kids and I. I have been supporting them all that time and even on unemployment without asking their father for a dime- as I can support my kids and didn't need his money to do it. He has then since found himself a girlfriend that is an assholerny and has also hired 2 more assholernys (if you're an attorney, i apologize, but these 3 are real idiots). He has isolated me from my children and has brainwashed my two preteens to believe that I left them and don't love them. If there are any parents out there who do this-knock it off- you are hurting your children. Unless of course your old other half is a drug addict or abuser they are still part of your children and they should be able to make their own decisions about the other parent.
So from being with them everyday I have nothing. I call them everynight to this day and majority of the time I get no answer. They went from mom I want to live with you to i don't want to spend any time with you because I'm changing? wtf is that! So I instead write them letters every other day and fly over 2K miles to go to their games for them to ignore me after the game and then I fly for 6 hours back. This is what I do.
Moms and Dads- Don't ever give up on your children. As heartbreaking as any of this may ever be for you they didn't ask to be here and unfortunately the 5 year old(mentally of course ew) you pro-created with can't see past themselves.
Love you forever-Mom<3
I have been divorced for about 7 years now and 19 months ago I relocated to get a better job so support my kids and I. I have been supporting them all that time and even on unemployment without asking their father for a dime- as I can support my kids and didn't need his money to do it. He has then since found himself a girlfriend that is an assholerny and has also hired 2 more assholernys (if you're an attorney, i apologize, but these 3 are real idiots). He has isolated me from my children and has brainwashed my two preteens to believe that I left them and don't love them. If there are any parents out there who do this-knock it off- you are hurting your children. Unless of course your old other half is a drug addict or abuser they are still part of your children and they should be able to make their own decisions about the other parent.
So from being with them everyday I have nothing. I call them everynight to this day and majority of the time I get no answer. They went from mom I want to live with you to i don't want to spend any time with you because I'm changing? wtf is that! So I instead write them letters every other day and fly over 2K miles to go to their games for them to ignore me after the game and then I fly for 6 hours back. This is what I do.
Moms and Dads- Don't ever give up on your children. As heartbreaking as any of this may ever be for you they didn't ask to be here and unfortunately the 5 year old(mentally of course ew) you pro-created with can't see past themselves.
Love you forever-Mom<3
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